Ray’s Latino Night in the back bar ended last night. It was not “the burning of Atlanta” some thought; it was more like the scorching of Hialeah. And for all their tough looks and gang hand gestures, they were really the softess bunch of pansies around; I got to know almost every one and found them caring and wonderful.
What were they? Loyal for one; if we asked them to dress in white and come on a Wednesday they did in unison. Well educated for another; most held professional jobs. And crazily sexy and good-looking, too. They knew how to have fun and even taught me a few things about that.
At the end of the night, many of them were crying and that was very moving for me. I thought I would lose it when one of them came up to me and said, “I thought we were supposed to support The Palace; why don't they support us?”. I tried to explain that all things change and that evolution is natural; I told them we would always stick together and move on to better things.
It didn’t matter; they still cried.
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The last back bar body shot was hosted by the crazy Thomas Barker, who hosted the first. The sexy German, Mentos, got to feed off of his favorite.
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This is a new favorite in town. He fit in quite nicely.
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Mystery "women" were everywhere. They are favorites at any party.
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There are the old favorites, of course.
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And the new.
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Even nice, Jewish boys got down and dirty.
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It was the "happy place" of Officer Brian's memoirs. It still is.
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Thank you, Ray, for an amazing five months in that back bar. You taught me something about loyalty I didn't think existed in this brazenly shallow town. Sure, you are a "favorite", but show me someone who doesn't value hard work, honesty, and loyalty and I will show you a fool. We all worked very hard, but in a strange way, I'm happy to have my Sunday nights back. Try a Friday next time......
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Mystery "women" were everywhere. They are favorites at any party.
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There are the old favorites, of course.
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And the new.
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Even nice, Jewish boys got down and dirty.
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It was the "happy place" of Officer Brian's memoirs. It still is.
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Thank you, Ray, for an amazing five months in that back bar. You taught me something about loyalty I didn't think existed in this brazenly shallow town. Sure, you are a "favorite", but show me someone who doesn't value hard work, honesty, and loyalty and I will show you a fool. We all worked very hard, but in a strange way, I'm happy to have my Sunday nights back. Try a Friday next time......
4 Comments:
I have a tear in my eye just reading about it. Give RayRay a big hug and kiss from The Countess. He will get one in person when I get there this fall.
Now, On with D-Bar!!
I'm not entirely sure I understand what you all DO down there? The only thing of which I am certain is that you all do it with a gusto not often witnessed in polite society.
I must come visit some day.
Thanks Jerimiah; that was very moving, too. I love those guys.
Countess, we all were a little teary-eyed, but it will go on in some other manner. A force like that can never be put back in the bottle.
Mikevil, you'd love it.
what a delicious latin glorious sight!
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